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Its not about the nail

Now I wanted to share a classic video on the differences between men and women. That difference is summed up in the “It’s not about the nail” video.

Now here we have a couple who are talking. and yeah the man sees what the problem is but yet the woman doesn’t want the man to fix the problem.

The interesting thing about this video is that it can be seen as how men address a problem. They want to fix the problem while women know about the problem they are facing they just share their life experiences. They don’t really want you to fix the problem women want to share the experience.

Yet men we care about our women but also we are action takers so we see that the problem can be fixed and so we launch into the solution.

Yeah, it may not make sense but again why do we launch into fix-it mode? The main reason is because of how we feel about the circumstance we are facing. Our girl is not feeling great so let’s see if we can change how she feels. When in all reality we are not letting our wife have her own experiences in life. So yeah they get mad when we get in the way of their experiences.

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The Relaxed Male

The Relaxed Male
Bryan Goodwin

The Relaxed Male is a podcast that helps men find their purpose and learn to breathe. We offer solutions for when life gets tough. Whether it’s divorce or just the stress of everyday life, we can help you get back on your feet and be the man you want to be. You deserve more than what society tells us we should do as men. Be the father your children need, be the partner your spouse needs, and most importantly – be yourself! This all starts with you getting out of your own way and deciding how you are going to live life.