What’s killing your dreams: The Violin Player Parable

Reading Time: 7 minutes I heard a story earlier this week about a violin player who loved playing the violin. Any free time he had he had his violin in his hand, he practiced. His dream was one day to be a great violin player. He played for everyone who would listen. Because of all the practice, he was good.  One day as he was walking down the street he saw one of the greatest violin teachers. This teacher was this man’s idol. With great anxiety, he walked up to the teacher and introduced himself, and asked if he could play for him. The …

The Relaxed Male Was Featured On Libsyn

Reading Time: < 1 minute Just a quick post and wanted to say it is way cool to see that the Relaxed Male was featured as a Libsyn Rockin Podcast. I had approached Else Escobar about being featured and she agreed by sending me a questionnaire. THis shows that if you step out of your zone and just ask you can often get a surprising yes. The No’s that we fear rarely happen. Read about it on the Libsyn Blog ShareTweetPin1ShareShare1 Shares

Are You an Attractive Person? – Ep 63

Reading Time: 3 minutes Question of The Week By The Brotherhood Of Men I wonder …do know or have contact with anyone that helps single parents pull in the missing element of a mother or father energy in parenting as a single parent or co-parent? Andrea Fitzpatrick How do single parents help their child with the opposite sex influence? This can be single mothers with sons or single fathers with daughters. This also goes for single fathers needing to find A feminine influence for their sons and Girls need a masculine influence in their life. The best way is to find someone who is …

Good Boundaries Free You

Reading Time: < 1 minute Sarri explains some important tools that we all have in our toolbox. The biggest is the ability to say Yes or No. She explains how many times when you set a boundary will cause people to feel emotion. Stormy emotions can be stressful. Especially when they hear no. She shows how stress causes people to lose their ability to say yes or no with confidence. Sarri gives some great points in that this internal compass will not give you details but it won’t lead you astray. The hardest part of this is trusting your compass. Sarri also explains that though …

Are You A Problem Magnet? – Ep 62

Reading Time: < 1 minute The Questions of the week by The Brotherhood of Men Read Bryan Goodwin's answer to Is life about who you are or who you aren't? on Quora Main Topic I bet you know someone who is a problem magnet. Maybe you are a problem magnet. What is a problem magnet you ask well the definition is quite simple it is that person who is always complaining about something going wrong in their life? Who’s a problem magnet? Always has a problem Has trouble letting go of problems Actively seeks out problems These are people who always have a crisis in …

4 Self Coaching Tools for MenStart changing your mindset.

We have worry and concerns. Then pile on the anxiety and fear that you have made the wrong choice in our life. What are you supposed to do?

Maybe you have fear of money or the lack of money. Perhaps you want more out of life. You want to achieve goals you have always wanted to pursue. You may even realize that you are not where you want to be and your attitude is in a way that you don't even recognize yourself anymore. 

Here are 4 tools that will help you change your mindset and get you on the path you so rightfully need to be on.