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Boys are normal human beings when they play cops and robbers.

Let Boys be Boys

Reading Time: 9 minutes Returning to the topic that was started last week. We are still talking about young men and the fact that boys are not broken and that Toxic Masculinity is made up. What’s the real problem? So why has there been a rise in school shootings? Why then are so many young men grabbing a gun and commencing to shoot up people they often knew? This is a very tough question to answer and no it isn’t a gun issue. It is a societal issue if you want my never to be humble opinion. It is interesting that these shootings are …

Rough and tumble boys are normal. They are far from toxic.

There is No Toxic Masculinity Because Our Boys Aren’t Broken

Reading Time: 7 minutes Are Boys Broken? That is a question that is brought up in the wake of the horrible massacre that happened in Florida. We have the normal political rantings and raving from both sides as to whether gun control is needed. Yet another group has decided to blame the sex of the shooter. They like to use the new buzzword Toxic Masculinity. Right off the bat, the words will set your teeth on edge if you have never heard it. What is Toxic Masculinity? In case you are having trouble processing what this is supposed to mean. Let me help you …

For the young men who read the relaxed male. Understand that your job is providing for your family and yourself.

Men, Providing is Your Job

Reading Time: 7 minutes Married households in the US dropped from 88% in the 1960s to 69%. This is still the majority of families. There are however also signs that many men are not taking their responsibility of being a dad seriously. With single mothers coming in second with 23%. Now I am not going to disparage the incredibly hard work that single mothers do to keep their children safe. These women are heroes in every sense of the word. I am also not going to poopoo the hard work that single fathers do to raise their kids. For the very same reason. Raising …

responsibility versus victimhood

Want to be a Man? Stop Playing the Victim.

Reading Time: 7 minutes Now I am going to step into this pool because, well I have seen this issue come up over and over and over again. I am seeing young men becoming lost. They are being assaulted by all sides. These young men have schools telling them they can’t be boys. They have groups that are beating them down just for being a male. So they try to bend and fight against who they are. I see High schoolers and College boys who lose their identity all because a group of postmodernist have told them that their maleness is bad. Masculinity is …

What is your new years resolution? How do you keep it?

How to Keep Your New Years Resolution

Reading Time: 5 minutes Christmas has passed us. We should be topped off in the eating department till around the 4th of July. It is now the time for the tradition of making a new year’s resolution. We know that leaders who make and pursue goals are more successful. The key these leaders do that is different than most people are that besides being intentional on their goal creations. They also make sure their goals are on their minds. They have different strategies on achieving the goals that are set. Many people have a hard time keeping New Year’s resolutions. This can cause many …

have gratitude in your heart when giving thanks

And Happy Thanksgiving to You

Reading Time: 2 minutes With all that is happening this year, it is important for us to stop, at least for a short while, and look around and be grateful for all the good that has happened in your life. Gratitude is important for the all-around health of a man. Ways to find gratitude Finding gratitude is often like working a muscle. It takes time patients practice and persistence. So If you start trying to find topics to be grateful about don’t worry if you have a hard time coming up with a lot. When you start to open the door to what you’re …

strike an alpha pose and leave the rest intimidated

Stand Like A Leader

Reading Time: < 1 minute How you hold yourself says a lot. People make judgment calls. Even thought who scream dont judge me make Judgment Calls. So When a person sees another person who is shrunkin or with drawn,  a leader is not what comes to mind. People in general look to a person who emotes confidence and give off the impression that they are the leader.  In the following video Amy Cuddy talks about how your body language defines who you are. How you hold yourself has many other affects too many physilogical along with mental. Amy talks abouthow if you hold your alpha …

How a guy can have a meaningful conversation

How to Talk about Anything

Reading Time: 2 minutes Some people may think that FORD stand for Found On Road Dead or it could mean Fastest on Race Day. Yet in this video you are shown how to keep a conversation going. This for many people even us guys can be a challenge. we strike up a conversation and it drops off as you scramble for another topic to throw up in the air, The whole time the person you are desprately trying to convers with is looking around. So how do you get the conversation to flow right off the bat well with this Video you see that …

Who is the Male in thhe Relaxed male? A guys identity is important.

The Male Identity

Reading Time: 8 minutes Men, what do you think of when you hear the word man? Some people may picture their dad. While others may conjure up their idol Tormund Giantsbane. Either way, there are as many ways to describe your quintessential man. Be it hairy or rugged, Often the thought of as a Cowboy or a battle-hardened Viking. Men are a part of this glorious world. We are natural leaders. People look to men for guidance, that is because men are natural leaders I could jump into the political pool and talk about how men as a whole are being attacked but why? …

4 Self Coaching Tools for MenStart changing your mindset.

We have worry and concerns. Then pile on the anxiety and fear that you have made the wrong choice in our life. What are you supposed to do?

Maybe you have fear of money or the lack of money. Perhaps you want more out of life. You want to achieve goals you have always wanted to pursue. You may even realize that you are not where you want to be and your attitude is in a way that you don't even recognize yourself anymore. 

Here are 4 tools that will help you change your mindset and get you on the path you so rightfully need to be on.