Message for the Young Men – EP 218

Never stop learning

Read

listen to podcasts

Try new things

Follow your curiosity

Get out and enjoy the fresh air

Go on a quest to find your purpose

Do something scary

Find a group of noble men to hang out with

Porn is not your friend

Dating

When it comes to dating know what type of girl you want in your life. Yeah, there are the physical attributes but what character traits do you want in your wife?

• Date with the purpose of marriage
• Don’t rush take a year to get to know her and then a year for the engagement. During this time Do some couples counseling and find out what she expects in marriage and share what you expect in marriage. Find out what each of you is going to bring to the table. Have some hard nos in place but also know when to be lenient on your standards. You aren’t going to find the perfect woman.
• Look out for girls that are damsels in distress because you get a distressed damsel. You don’t want a woman that you are always rescuing.
• Understand what respect is and does she actually respect you?
• What are your values? What are her values? Are they compatible?
• Is she stable when she is upset or is she throwing temper tantrums?
• Does she have daddy issues?
• Is she talking about her ex’s all the time
• How does she treat her parents in general
• How much responsibility does she take?
• How quickly is she saying she loves you?
• How are your friends and family responding to her?
• Are there double standards?
• Tries to separate you from your male friends?
• Tries to separate you from your family
• Talking about other people’s secrets
• Has mental health issues
• Always in panic mode

Summary

In this episode, I delve into the message for young men, aiming to provide guidance on navigating life’s challenges and relationships. I emphasize the importance of intentional living and setting clear goals to achieve success. It’s crucial for men to establish standards and values when it comes to relationships, and understanding red flags to watch out for in potential partners. I discuss the significance of finding a compatible partner who aligns with your core values, respects you, and shares mutual goals. I highlight the impact of mental health issues in relationships, urging caution and advocating for healthy dynamics. Additionally, I touch on the dynamic of separateness from friends and family, emphasizing the need to preserve these relationships amidst romantic involvements. Furthermore, I address the role of physical attraction in relationships, while highlighting the underlying importance of shared values and respect in fostering a strong connection. I caution against falling into the trap of rescuing a damsel in distress, emphasizing the need for partnership based on mutual support and stability. I also stress the need for intentional dating, prioritizing meaningful connections over physical attraction. Ultimately, I encourage young men to approach relationships with intentionality, setting clear standards and boundaries to ensure healthy and fulfilling partnerships. By prioritizing respect, open communication, and shared values, men can cultivate strong, lasting relationships that contribute positively to their lives. Thank you for listening, and remember to share this valuable insight with others who may benefit.

00:00:00 Introduction to The Relaxed Male
00:02:45 The Unique Challenges Men Face
00:07:44 Continuous Learning and Growth
00:12:13 Misconceptions About Men in Society
00:13:27 Finding Your Purpose and Facing Fears
00:18:58 The Importance of Intentional Relationships
00:22:25 Choosing the Right Partner for Marriage
00:25:18 Taking Time to Know Your Partner
00:27:27 Planning for a Successful Future Together
00:31:36 Building a Strong Foundation in Relationships
00:39:46 Key Red Flags in a Potential Partner
00:43:50 Seeking Clarity and Guidance in Relationships
00:45:18 Special Coaching Offer for Personal Growth