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rite of passages are needed in your life

You Need a Rite of Passage

Reading Time: 8 minutes WHAM! Have you ever run into a wall? Not a literal wall, we know those hurt you get a bloody nose. Your eyes water, but I mean the equivalent of something tough to surmount. A challenge you look at and you say I can’t do that. That is impossible. How is anybody suppose to beat that! So many times you hear that phrase especially when you are fighting someone on Final Fantasy. Think of that big turtle that you have to fight in FF15 That is 2 full hours of slashing and hacking button mashing marathon. No matter what you …

Here are 7 different tactics to help you not be angry

7 Ways to Prevent Anger

Reading Time: 8 minutes Anger, we have talked about what it is and where does anger come from. Knowing about anger is good. Yet we still at times get mad. Though the bible doesn’t say it, I am sure somewhere along his story, Job threw his hands up and said, “Oh Come ON!” We as humans get angry. That goes without saying. There wouldn’t be an emotion called anger if we all didn’t get ticked off from time to time. Anger as an emotion can be debated as to whether it is good or not. It is definitely a good motivator because you, as a …

Video on 3 ways you can stop being angry

3 Ways of Getting Over Feeling Angry

Reading Time: 2 minutes You ever notice that, when you get butthurt, it is hard for you to get over the initial anger? Why do we get angry so fast? Well according to Julia Kristina it could be that we have some deeply ingrained bitterness that keeps rearing its ugly head. High Expectations Many times we have expectations that are too high. We get angry when we expect people to have the same considerations as we do. Yet when these people fail to be as considerate as we feel we are we are let down. With that letdown, we get angry Having Scarcity Often …

Talking about suicide and how to keep out loved ones alive

Lets Talk Suicide

Reading Time: 7 minutes This week was supposed to be about smiling and how it brings positive attitudes. But, that’s not going to happen this week. Instead, we are going down a sadder road. My personal world was recently rocked by a friend of mine who killed himself. I have had people who I know who have committed suicides before, but this is the first person who was a close friend. I had a coworker who suddenly was never going to clap me on the shoulder and say its good to see you. That was a bit of a shock. Yet he wasn’t as close …

How can you make a decision confidently.

How to make Confident Decisions

Reading Time: < 1 minute Feel like you are stuck on making a discussion? Most guys do from time to time. We struggle to make the right move. Many guys will try to weigh every possible option we can think of. It seems like the bigger the decision the harder it is to make the right one. We have trained ourselves to second guess our intuition. So how do we make better confident decisions faster? Today’s video is of Tony Robbins and how he makes decisions. There are many different ways to approach a problem and decide the course of action. I have found a …

My graduation speech

If I Could Give a Graduation Speech

Reading Time: 11 minutes Congratulations senior you made it. This day was 12 years in the making. The beginning of the beginning From the time your mom shed a tear because you were excited about kindergarten. To right now you have experienced a lot of firsts. Your first ”A” and the pride you felt by making your parents cheer. To the disappointment, you saw in their eyes when you brought in your first F. You learned a lot about how your actions affected those around you. Your first friend who was more than a friend. Hold on to that memory. Hold on to the …

How a dad can help a mom who is carrying their child

How can you Help your Pregnant Spouse with Back Pain?

Reading Time: 5 minutes Welcome to this post, “dad”! I believe a congratulation on this new journey is in order! Hats off to you for being caring and empathetic enough to clicking this link, investing and researching what you can do to help in a situation like this! Let’s go through the different ways you can help your baby’s mom deal with back pain while pregnant! Quick side note: if this article could be summed up in only two words, those words would be: Tylenol P.M.; it is in many’s opinion that Tylenol P.M. is God’s gift to pregnant women!*NOTE: Please consult your ObGyn before …

Boys are normal human beings when they play cops and robbers.

Let Boys be Boys

Reading Time: 9 minutes Returning to the topic that was started last week. We are still talking about young men and the fact that boys are not broken and that Toxic Masculinity is made up. What’s the real problem? So why has there been a rise in school shootings? Why then are so many young men grabbing a gun and commencing to shoot up people they often knew? This is a very tough question to answer and no it isn’t a gun issue. It is a societal issue if you want my never to be humble opinion. It is interesting that these shootings are …

Rough and tumble boys are normal. They are far from toxic.

There is No Toxic Masculinity Because Our Boys Aren’t Broken

Reading Time: 7 minutes Are Boys Broken? That is a question that is brought up in the wake of the horrible massacre that happened in Florida. We have the normal political rantings and raving from both sides as to whether gun control is needed. Yet another group has decided to blame the sex of the shooter. They like to use the new buzzword Toxic Masculinity. Right off the bat, the words will set your teeth on edge if you have never heard it. What is Toxic Masculinity? In case you are having trouble processing what this is supposed to mean. Let me help you …

For the young men who read the relaxed male. Understand that your job is providing for your family and yourself.

Men, Providing is Your Job

Reading Time: 7 minutes Married households in the US dropped from 88% in the 1960s to 69%. This is still the majority of families. There are however also signs that many men are not taking their responsibility of being a dad seriously. With single mothers coming in second with 23%. Now I am not going to disparage the incredibly hard work that single mothers do to keep their children safe. These women are heroes in every sense of the word. I am also not going to poopoo the hard work that single fathers do to raise their kids. For the very same reason. Raising …