Can you learn to Love Yourself?

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What are the different traits that get people to talk about you?

The biggest tip is that we don’t love ourselves enough. Most people either think they are not worthy of loving themselves or they had something happen that makes them question how worthy they are of love.

It could be that you don’t like certain traits in other people. Yet you know that you also have those traits you despise and so you don’t like yourself because you refuse to allow yourself the grace of changing.

The speaker has a great question you should always ask yourself.

What is it about the person I admire? Figure out what that trait is and start making that goal happen.

Yet I will say don’t believe that doing this will make you happy. Doing something to make you happy will never make you happy. Accepting yourself is the only way you can be truly content with who you are. Happiness is an emotion that you feel because of a thought. So there are times that you won’t have happy thoughts. If you don’t like yourself you won’t allow yourself to have those happy thoughts.

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About Bryan Goodwin

I like being able to help people find their "why" and achieve the personal freedom they desire. Besides writing for Relaxed Male I also am a life coach. By helping men find the leader that is found in each and every one of us. I do this by encouraging men to get outdoors and find the balance they are missing. Realize that they need to be in contact with the outside as often as they can. It is not only good for them but for their families and relationships.


  1. “Accepting yourself is the only way you can be truly content with who you are.” I couldn’t agree more. It is vital to accept and love yourself unconditionally despite the imperfections.

    1. That is the hardest part for people is to be accepting of who you are, trying to be ok with your quirks is what makes people admire you.

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