Bryan Goodwin
Bryan Goodwin
@BryanG@www.relaxedmale.com

Certified Men’s Coach that sees men suffering under their fears and the effects of nice guys. I help guide men through the uncertainty of divorce so that when it is done and over with they are better stronger more masculine men.

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  • The Mindset

    You ever look at something that just doesn’t make sense. Then you move one piece and all of a sudden everything makes sense? That is a a mental shift or a mindset shift. Often people have probelms with being blocked and not able to make any progress to their goals or acheiving their goals are…

  • Becoming a Relaxed Male

    Who am I? man if there was ever an existential question that little Three-word sentence is it. How does someone answer that question? I remember from my childhood the best way to start a story is… Once upon a time… Yeah, that is a good start. Let’s roll with that. Once upon a time, there…

  • Your Belief System

    It’s all mind over matter. You have heard this before. I am sure you have. Did you ever think it was just a means of keeping your hand from being burned by a candle flame? All it was is a philosophical mumbo jumbo put out my swami’s in the Far East. Yeah, I sense the…

  • Finding a place

    We all have a special place. That area that is where we can feel as though we are being rechared. have you ever been walking out in the woods and you find a place that make you stop. There may not be anything visually spectacular but all of asudden you feel at ease. maybe you…

  • Finding Your Spot Outdoors

    As I have mentioned several times I like the outdoors. There are mental and physical benefits of sending just half a day outside. If you are having a problem you will hear me say get outdoors. Take a break and step outside for a short while. Though you may hear of horrible things outside like…

  • If I Could Give a Graduation Speech

    Congratulations senior you made it. This day was 12 years in the making. The beginning of the beginning From the time your mom shed a tear because you were excited about kindergarten. To right now you have experienced a lot of firsts. Your first ”A” and the pride you felt by making your parents cheer.…

  • Let Boys be Boys

    Returning to the topic that was started last week. We are still talking about young men and the fact that boys are not broken and that Toxic Masculinity is made up. What’s the real problem? So why has there been a rise in school shootings? Why then are so many young men grabbing a gun…

  • There is No Toxic Masculinity Because Our Boys Aren’t Broken

    Are Boys Broken? That is a question that is brought up in the wake of the horrible massacre that happened in Florida. We have the normal political rantings and raving from both sides as to whether gun control is needed. Yet another group has decided to blame the sex of the shooter. They like to…

  • Men, Providing is Your Job

    Married households in the US dropped from 88% in the 1960s to 69%. This is still the majority of families. There are however also signs that many men are not taking their responsibility of being a dad seriously. With single mothers coming in second with 23%. Now I am not going to disparage the incredibly…

  • Want to be a Man? Stop Playing the Victim.

    Now I am going to step into this pool because, well I have seen this issue come up over and over and over again. I am seeing young men becoming lost. They are being assaulted by all sides. These young men have schools telling them they can’t be boys. They have groups that are beating…