Bryan Goodwin
Bryan Goodwin
@BryanG@www.relaxedmale.com

Certified Men’s Coach that sees men suffering under their fears and the effects of nice guys. I help guide men through the uncertainty of divorce so that when it is done and over with they are better stronger more masculine men.

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  • The Problem with Fear of the Unknown

    You are setting in your office and you just got an email from the boss. The phrasing is a bit ambiguous but you read it as he is not happy. So, what do you do? Do you avoid the email act like it isn’t there? Perhaps you go ahead and reply, then start packing your…

  • Fear Is Holding You Back

    Fear is one of those emotions that can sneak up on you and out of “Safety” keep you from reaching your goals. Fear is the basis of many other negative emotions. Like anger anxiety procrastination. Call of form out of a fear of a task or job at hand. The fear you hear in your…

  • Perfect Power Questions to Ask Your Self

    There are studies that say that people who talk to themselves are smarter. I can’t say that is a fact, or not. Many people would question my level of knowledge though I do talk to myself, often. There is a point to talking to your self. Not just to yourself but to your self. Your…

  • Shift Your Focus with the Questions You ask

    I wanted to dive just a little deeper in the area of you are what you say to yourself. This is a big key to changing your mindset. Not only the words that you say to yourself have an influance but also the questins you ask yourself and even your Self. Some folks call Your…

  • The Obstacle Is The Way

    That obstruction is often something unexpected. Whether you are fired from your job or you find out your child has a debilitating disease. There is always something that is going to happen at the worst possible time. Maybe it is writer’s block and you are trying to fill a goal of one story a day.…

  • Overcoming Difficulties In Your Path

    We all have difficulties. Thats a part of life. Those hard times you encounter are often called Character building exercises. Then there are the really hard times that will blindside you on some idle Tuesday. These big problems can often trip people up. These boulders inlife often cause people to sink into dispair or give…

  • You Don’t Really Have To Cuss

    ***Warning – There will be adult language in this post.*** Let me start with I dont care about which political affiliation you are with. Both sides are just as bad about pointing the finger and playing the victim. That is one reason I left that field behind about 5 years ago. In the past few…

  • Where Did the Bad Words Come From?

    This week I am for some reason really noticed how put off I am with the language we seem to be using more and more. Maybe I am getting old, or maybe I am starting to appreciate the power of words. Either way, I was looking around and found this video by VSauce. (My son…

  • You Are What You Say

    Words have meaning. An interesting concept isn’t it. The funny thing about this is that many people forget that concept. When a person hears words they first take them to be literal. No, I’m serious, and the person who believes the words the most is the person who utters them. There is the saying above…

  • Words Influance your Relationships

    What you say to yourself has a profound effect on how you act. The words you use and tell yourself are far more powerful than what you would like to think. If you are lacking self-confidence, you might look at what story you are telling yourself. Are you often making the statement to yourself that…