Bryan Goodwin
Bryan Goodwin
@BryanG@www.relaxedmale.com

Certified Men’s Coach that sees men suffering under their fears and the effects of nice guys. I help guide men through the uncertainty of divorce so that when it is done and over with they are better stronger more masculine men.

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  • Denying Your Emotions -EP 32

    When it comes to men we are often accused of denying our emotions. When in reality we process them differently. So what happens when we do deny our feelings?

  • Want a Better Life? Have Better Standards.

    So many people go through life without even thinking what their standards are. Why do you want to have standards in your life? How do you raise your standards?

  • 3 Steps to Raising Your Standards

    Why do you want to step up your standards? Well, Liv Unbound explains why everything around you reflects your standards and if you want to live a better life then you have to have standards that show that better life. You can look at standards as being a filter of what you allow to be…

  • You Are Not Broken – EP 31

    Question of the week Read Bryan Goodwin's answer to Why don’t fathers cry? on Quora Main Topic I have seen many people who go through life looking through the rearview mirror of life. A wise man once told me that is why the rearview mirror is so small. Yeah, the pst is important but what…

  • A Slobs Advice on Dropping The Perfectionist Schtick.

    There are two different types of people out there in the world. There are the perfectionists and then there are the rest of us. You may call us Normal, slobs, aloof, many other names for those who don’t see the need for the amount of detail you see. You may be pushing a pixel around…

  • Monica: The Perfectionist

    If you are a fan of Friends then you know how neurotic Monica is about having everything perfect. She cleans things that are used to clean other things. She has to have everything just the right way. As you can see you start to understand why her friends are often driven to extremes. Why does…

  • EP 30 – The Man Box pt 2

    This is the second part of a two-part episode about the concept of the man box. Why it is a flawed way of thinking. And maybe I actually agree with it?This is the second part of a two-part episode about the concept of the man box. Why it is a flawed way of thinking. And…

  • Truth about Nice Guys

    Are you a nice guy? Sure we all like to think we are.but are you a real nice guy? I mean the guy who is often friend zoned if you are single. Are you the guy who is always passed up for the job promotion. Though you work hard and are always helping out other…

  • To Agree or Disagree

    Are you agreeable or are you confrontational? Why do people who are agreeable find themselves in tight spots? While disagreeable people are often in jail. According to Jordon Peterson, there are several. The point is if you are the nice guy, you finish last because you argue against your interest for the sake of being…

  • EP 29 – The Man Box Part 1

    What is the man box? What does it have to do with toxic masculinity? The two are one and the same and we talk about why it is wrong. Where did it come from and how there is a huge misconception about what is toxic masculinity.