The first step is to just talk to her

After 10 to 20 years of marriage, you maybe wondering where the passion went? If you are tired of having cold nights of you and your wife just being roomates more than lovers then you need to make a change.

How?

You need to do the one activity you haven’t done with your wife in a very long time.
No not sex, That comes after this. It is simple and wont hurt you but us guys do struggle with this on a regular basis. That is

Talk To Your Wife

Yeah, Talk to her. No not the old tired

Hey how was your day?

type of converstation but the deeper conversations. The ones that allow you to have 2 hours of talking where you learn. How do you start those types of conversations? Well you start by asking questions.

what type of questions? Good open ended qestions that will allow for the conversations to flow.